Alicia’s Dating Manual: How to Win Her Heart (Spoiler: It’s Not Easy) 😜

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out, the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the Meat Market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay, I'm Jess and today's sizzling sexy single is Alicia.

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Welcome, hi, thanks for being here.

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Thank you, so you literally manifest your husband and create posts addressed to dear future husband?

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Yes, I want to hear about this.

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Well, I figure I'll reach a wide net, and what a better way to do it than other than the internet.

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You know, um, I haven't met him here locally in Arizona, so I am open to find my dream man.

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So I figure you know what I'm going to manifest it and put it in the universe and see what happens.

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Do you think your husband, do you think your future husband, is currently living somewhere else right now?

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Do you feel that way, like is that what your gut's telling you?

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You know, I don't know, but I just have a feeling that just cast that wide net, you never know where he might be.

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The ocean is large, so I'm ready to swim the sea smart, so have you had much response.

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Have you had any men responding to these posts?

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oh, my goodness, I cannot keep up we need to know how your DMs look right now.

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I had well DMs On Instagram.

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I had over 300.

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What, Not realizing that I signed up for threads that they were cross-posting on, threads?

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I had over 45,000 views in less than two weeks, Wow, so I have not been able to keep up with the overwhelming response.

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That's crazy Responses of posts from men or DMs, I should say.

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That's crazy.

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And you're let's talk about these posts a little bit, because your dear future husband posts are very um, they're.

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They're kind of home homemaking.

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You know, you're cooking dinner for your niece and you're cleaning the kitchen and you're doing all of these very, you know, trad wife things.

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They're very cute and they're very endearing.

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So are you getting a positive, are you getting positive responses and messages, Absolutely.

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I even have women reaching out to me Like I love what you're doing.

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How creative.

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But yeah, the men are like come cook me a meal, but I'm, that's me, that's who I am.

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I know it looks like I might be acting for the internet, but that's who I am.

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I enjoy my niece, I enjoy children, I love cooking, I love cleaning.

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Surprisingly, if you notice, my house is very clean.

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You're like every man's dream, so you have all these responses.

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Do you have time to go through all these men's messages?

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I haven't, but I try to be respectful, even if it's not somebody I'm interested in.

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You know, at least just responding with a thank you, maybe an emoji, but I notice that just in responding it's actually continuously creating like an active page so that people see me responding.

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Yeah, it's putting you in like the algorithm rewards you for that right For just responding to people.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Have you had anybody reach out that you're actually interested in?

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no, no, that's the problem, and I'm not trying to be picky, but I know what I deserve yeah, you know you're not willing to settle.

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That's a good thing, so what?

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are some of your things that you're looking for that you're not willing to settle on well somebody that has a job.

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They have to have a job bare minimum, right, I mean they've got to have a decent page, because some of the pages that I've like run, run across, when I've seen somebody okay, they're kind of cute I'm like, oh no, this is not somebody would want to take home with me.

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You know, just somebody that is adventurous even that they show their little personality on a page.

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I did actually have a conversation with one that was semi-interested, but he said that I was too old for him.

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What?

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Yes, oh no, you're so young.

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How old was this guy?

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We're probably about seven years apart, but you know.

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Him seven years younger than you.

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He's seven years younger than me and I'm like come on, but we matched very well as far as personalities.

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He's adventurous, loves to travel, likes to do things, but it just wasn't for me, I feel like seven years when you're an adult, when you're in your you know, your late 30s, your early 40s, yeah, even into your 50s like seven years really isn't that big of a difference when you're in your 20s?

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yeah, it's a you know it's a bigger difference because then if you're looking at sevens yeah, it's a you know it's a bigger difference because then if you're looking at seven years younger, you're getting, you know, into the, the teenage years still so it's a much bigger deal then, but I feel like as you get older seven years is is hardly anything.

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I mean, look at the French president his wife is like 40 years older than he is.

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Seriously, yeah, right, yeah, that's crazy.

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So you also say are you practicing celibacy?

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I am, so tell us about that.

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What started that?

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you know I, I realized that.

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You know I want to wait for the right person.

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No one is deserving of me than that special man that puts a ring on it.

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So I figure, let me just cleanse, let me just be myself, let me just be peaceful, and then give it all to my husband.

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I'm ready for him.

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Has it been hard?

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It's been extremely hard.

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How long has it been?

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You really want to know how many years.

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Yeah, it's been years, years how many gosh she's like I don't want she's like the fact that yours is plural.

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That's crazy.

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Yeah, that's some.

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That is some control you're gonna go to town when you find someone, whoever, whoever winds up with you, man, you know what?

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let me take that back.

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Let me correct myself on that one, because now that I think about it, it's been over about a year and a half, because I did go years and then I met somebody, okay, and then you know, sparks happened.

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And then he broke my heart.

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So I just said, I'm going to stick with it, I'm going to stick with it.

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And then when something like that happens, you realize, realize, like do you realize what I just?

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did for you exactly, you know, exactly like so you went years, yep, and then you met someone.

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Did it feel great to have sex again?

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Finally, was it absolutely?

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yes, absolutely.

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And then, of course, you know you're craving it.

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I'm like, okay, I just got dissed and I don't have that person anymore.

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So I'm like you know what?

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I'm just gonna hold out.

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I'm gonna wait, are you?

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waiting for marriage now, I'm waiting for a ring on it a ring on it, yeah, yeah absolutely, you meet a guy and after two days he's like will you marry me?

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Does that really happen these days?

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I feel like it doesn't, I feel like it doesn't anymore.

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Maybe, maybe to get into your bed.

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It might, but not truly.

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You know what I mean Not somebody that truly truly is looking for that.

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That's funny.

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So you're super smart, you have your master's degree, correct I do.

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What is your master's in?

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Healthcare innovation.

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So it's like a leadership slash admin type of degree.

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So you're super educated, you're very smart, you're very confident.

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I bet you intimidate a lot of men.

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I bet that's an issue you have right.

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Yeah, you know, I've spoken to men that I've dated, or just men that I know, and they're like you are super, super well put together and that is a threat to a lot of men.

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And I'm thinking like wouldn't men want to have a woman that's got it all?

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I'm not in competition, I'm building a partnership.

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We're going to build an empire together.

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Wouldn't you want a woman who has her stuff together?

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Because you make him look better.

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Absolutely it's like why wouldn't you want that?

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Right when it's, you know, let's be a powerhouse.

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Yeah, you know let's be like just a king and a queen.

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You're going to make some guys so happy.

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We're going to have so many DMs.

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We just got to find him.

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Hopefully we don't have as many.

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Well, I mean, hopefully we do have as many DMs as you do, but man, that's, that's a lot of work going through all those messages and stuff.

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That's crazy.

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So you said the last relationship you were in.

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He DM'd you but you didn't really pay attention.

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But then you ran into each other in public, in a grocery store or something.

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Yes, so that was prior to the pandemic.

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Okay.

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And great, we totally hit it off.

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Great person.

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But this person could not hold a job.

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Could not hold a job.

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And then I found myself I'm embarrassed to say taking care of a man.

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And.

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I'll never do that again, never.

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Ain't nobody got time for that, no.

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No.

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So are you on the dating apps currently?

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No, I'm not.

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I don't have the patience for it.

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I want to do something different.

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That's why I'm here.

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You know, I felt like the dating apps it was recycled men, same people every time.

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I would you know.

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I would try it, but it was always the same man I'm like.

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Well, didn't you find somebody by now?

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I'm sure they probably said the same thing about me, but I couldn't even last 24 hours and it's interesting because I feel like like the scene, like the bar scene here is the same way, because every time I decide to go out somewhere, I see the same guys that we used to run into when we went out oh God, they're still there, the 10 years ago, 15 years ago.

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I feel like it's the same.

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I feel like the apps and the bar scene here they're kind of synonymous in that way, like they're a little bit the same.

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So have you met anybody outside of that?

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Like when was?

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Have you been on a date recently?

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I should say have you dated anybody recently?

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No, no.

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And I do go out, I do put myself in places.

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I just you know that intimidation thing.

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I walk in, it's like I demand the room.

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I see them staring.

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I shouldn't be the one to approach the man.

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You know that's a problem I feel like in today's day and age is that men aren't approaching women.

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They don't take initiative anymore.

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It's kind of a turnoff, don't you want a man to be a?

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man and aggressive and take initiative.

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Yes, Kind of yeah.

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I feel like Disney lied to me.

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Yeah, seriously Right, but.

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I love what you're doing on the internet, like when I'm scrolling through TikTok, I see a lot of videos of men that just have these captions I'm single, I'm 43.

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I'm a police officer.

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Do you want to date me?

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Millions of shares, like that's what people are starting to do, because they're so done with the app.

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I know thinking like outside the box absolutely yeah other ways to meet people so what are you looking for?

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describe your perfect partner, describe your future husband?

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oh gosh well got me dreaming here.

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Well, somebody you know, as I said, well, very, very well, put together, very structured.

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I'm structured, but is not afraid to let loose.

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I like to be silly too.

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I do have a big kid side to me.

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It's hidden, I may not show right now, but I will go and do fun things.

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You know somebody that just is spontaneous, yeah, someone who likes to travel, someone who likes to eat because I do love to cook, someone who is willing to sacrifice anything for a woman, and what I mean by that is just a great partnership.

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My parents were married almost 50 years.

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It was death that did my mother apart from my father, because I lost my father.

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But my father was a good man.

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He's a man that loved his wife, loved his children, loved family, loved society, loved a legacy.

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He's just known as a great person, and when he would enter the room it was just this positive energy, a man that just comes in and just his whole aura is just strong, positive smiles.

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You know somebody that just you know, is very positive.

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Now, we all, as we get older, may have some type of baggage.

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I'm open.

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You've been married.

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You've been divorced.

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I have to deal with that at my age.

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No.

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I've never been married, I don't have any children, but you know I'm not perfect.

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No one's perfect.

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I feel like I'm flexible, but a man that doesn't have a record.

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And what I mean by that.

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I'm like not somebody that just came out of jail, or you know somebody that you know has a history of you know five different marriages and divorces, or has.

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Like restraining orders against them or orders of protection.

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You know stuff like that, because you can't change anyone.

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You can't at this point if they've already been through all that.

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Yeah, you know, because you can't change anyone.

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You can't at this point if they've already been through all that.

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Yeah, so you had mentioned someone that doesn't have a job, someone that has a criminal record.

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Do you have any other deal breakers?

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What?

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do you?

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Are you interested in dating someone with kids?

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Are kids a deal breaker for you?

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at my age I'm that's what usually what I see, so that was not a deal breaker.

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Do you want kids?

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I do not want to physically have kids, um, but I'm open to dating somebody with the with children, okay, what?

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about.

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If someone wants to like adopt kids or do a surrogate or something like that.

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Would you be?

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open, we can talk about it.

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Yeah, for the right person, for the right person, okay, yeah okay, I feel like you would make a really.

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I know people say that, because people say this to me all the time too, and I'm always like I know what it's like.

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But I feel like you're just your personality and your nature.

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I feel like you would make.

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You would make a really good and I love kids.

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Yeah, I truly enjoy them.

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But yeah you know I'm open, yeah, yeah and no, why didn't it work out with your last long-term relationship?

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this person wasn't ready.

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They weren't ready to settle down, and what I mean by that is just they, just they weren't built the right way, meaning it's almost like they weren't used to relationship.

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I grew up in a two-parent household.

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This person didn't saw their father with so many different women and just mom never committed.

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So I don't know if this person really understood the importance of family or commitment yeah, are you so?

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because you're sort of casting this wide net right with your posts.

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Are you married to Arizona, like, do you want to stay?

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here, or are you open to moving?

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I will hop on a plane.

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I will hop on the plane for the right man.

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I will hop on a plane.

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Would you permanently move for a man?

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Yeah, actually I would.

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Okay, I'd come to that decision.

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I used to say no, I'm going to stay here.

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But for the right person, if it feels right, I'm willing to take that risk, and it's not like you have kids here that you need to stay here for.

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No, you have no baggage no, so you can jump on a plane, absolutely.

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And your last sort of little relationship was long distance before and it works right.

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It does work.

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It works for me, yeah, yeah.

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What do you find?

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Do you find that you have to work harder?

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Do things a little bit differently?

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What's different about dating long distance and dating someone in your city.

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You know, not on my end, because I will get up, like I said, and hop on a plane you know I will make.

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I will make arrangements to make it happen because, you know, there should be no boundaries when it comes to love.

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Yeah, I agree.

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So do you have any crazy first date stories, or crazy?

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first date stories.

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Um, I wouldn't say, you know, I'll tell you this.

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So my best friend recently tried to connect me with a guy that lived in California, and what I'll say about this guy is he had two kids, he's a full-time father and the first date that he wanted to take me on was his son's birthday party.

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What.

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How old, is his son turning 12.

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No, it's too young.

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That's too young, and I'm like wait what.

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That's too young.

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So I said no, I like I ended that conversation and that no, that was not going to happen?

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Did you end up going on a date with him, or was it just done at that point?

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It was done at that point.

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I'm like turn off, let me, know you before you even introduce me to your children.

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Yeah, I agree, that's a little much I'm on and a 12-year-old's birthday party is quite hectic and he's got to be so busy.

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How are you going to get time to get to know him right?

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yeah, I know.

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Well, I think he figured because we were talking on the FaceTime or over the phone and I'm like but I don't know you, I don't know how.

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I don't know your mannerisms.

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Yeah, and had he FaceTimed his son with you, like had you met his son on FaceTime?

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before running in the background.

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But his son didn't know who I was.

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You know oh my god it sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, like you, set yourself up for.

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It was a good thing you said no to that date.

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I think you would have been setting yourself up for an experience, that's for sure.

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That's funny.

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So do you have a hidden talent or a unique fact about yourself that not many people know?

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Well, I've never had a cavity.

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Yes, I ate more candy as a kid than you can even imagine but no um.

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So I do voiceovers professionally do you really?

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Yeah, I can do voices, and don't ask me to do any voices.

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I was just gonna ask you to do a voice too how fun.

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Yeah, that's something that I fell into in high school.

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I was actually once a very shy child and then studied televised production but went to the Academy of Television and Radio Broadcasting.

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And that's back in the day when boombox radio, the internet radio, came out and I was doing voiceovers for internet radio.

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Oh, how cool.

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And then so.

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I got an agent and she's like can you do voices?

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And I said yep, and I recorded a demo and actually have a professional resume and background and voiceovers and I can do voices.

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oh, my gosh, that's so cool.

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I want you to do a voice.

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So bad.

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Can you do accents?

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yeah, I'm not so.

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I, the sound is is precise, but sometimes the words may not be right.

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Yeah, so do you do impressions of people or is it mostly like characters?

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Yeah, Okay, okay okay, Okay, interesting.

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I've never met somebody that does that before.

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That's super interesting.

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So this week we have a listener question.

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Okay.

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She says my boyfriend is amazing, sweet, funny and incredibly thoughtful, but there's one issue I really wasn't prepared for.

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He dirty talks like he's narrating a National Geographic documentary.

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I'm talking full nature, special Observe as the male approaches his mate Lindsay.

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I'm like reading these in your voice.

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The female appears to be enjoying this.

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One time he even whispered magnificent, truly magnificent.

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How do I get him to switch from wildlife narration to, well, literally anything else, sincerely trying not to mate in the wild?

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the bush appears to be overgrown.

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Oh my god, I think she needs to have a conversation with them.

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Be like this is not my cup of tea.

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This does not tickle my fancy, I agree.

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That's a turn off.

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When is she doing this?

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Is this in the bedroom?

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I think it's in the bedroom.

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I think, yeah, she says dirty talk, so I think it's in the bedroom, I think it's just a conversation, and that's how I feel like a lot of our advice is just like people that aren't talking, like they're not communicating with each other, you know, like if, if someone, and then and then the problem is, I feel like is once you I don't want to say fake it, I don't want to say she's like faking being turned on with him, but she likely is faking pleasure with him You're positively reinforcing the behavior that you don't want.

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So, by him, do that and then you go on to actually, like you know, be intimate with him.

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He thinks, oh well, that worked really well, so maybe next time let me just do the same thing worked with someone in the past so he's redoing it.

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Yeah, I mean haven't you been with someone in your past that tries to dirty talk and you're like cringe.

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Please just shut up.

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Yes, yes, yes, but maybe it worked on his ex, no, but I mean with with her, like it, like at one point, like if he, if this is a problem and he's done it more than once with her, you know what I mean.

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Like the first time that he did it she probably overlooked it, continued to fake her pleasure with him, yeah, and then and so then he continued to do it, thinking exactly like it yeah, she really liked that.

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It worked last time down.

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There has become very wet he's trying to bring the animal out.

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Yes, yes, oh, that's hilarious.

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So now we're going to discuss alternative ways to meet your match, how other people are getting creative, like you were talking about the barber shop videos oh, oh, yes, that I sent you, yeah, yeah, so somebody oh god, how did that video even go?

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my brain is like so foggy, but it was like um, here's a tip ladies, like follow your local barber shop on instagram, because you know the barber obviously is photographing and videoing their work, right and so but you're also getting you're also getting an image of all of their clients looking their best because they have a fresh haircut their beard is freshly oiled, their lineup is nice and crispy.

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like you're getting, like you're getting these male clients, who are one.

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They're taking care of themselves because they're regularly going to the barber and having you know their little self-care moment they're, they're grooming themselves, um, and then you know, you're seeing what they, what they look like.

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But okay, so you find your match on this Instagram page.

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So what do you show up to the barber shop and be like I don't know.

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I guess you, I don't know I didn't really think about it and I didn't.

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I don't know that I got that far in the video but then.

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But then yeah, I guess, like do you have to then do a little deep dive and like slide into the DMs?

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of the client.

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I started that.

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I started that with doctors, you know, because I figure you know, but I haven't taken it to that next level.

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Where you actually approach.

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Yeah, because that's the thing I'm following them.

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They'll follow me back, but then there's no action.

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So you find doctors on what like Instagram.

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Yeah.

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And you follow them.

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Yeah, I love this I love this strategy.

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It's like the same strategy, right, yeah, yes, that is so funny, funny so you follow them, they follow you back.

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And so then do you?

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Do?

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You start with a little like well, I go like like of a story or like of an old post.

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I'm liking old posts.

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I go through okay, catch a little tension, but nothing's happened from there, because I'm thinking like, okay, why don't you?

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just dm someone because, you want them to dm you first really yeah, so you would never dm a guy first.

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I don't know, we'll see.

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We'll see there might be that one right that's funny so other things on here, the runners club people are joining runners clubs not to run, but just to meet other singles yeah, I feel like, though, you have to enjoy running, because, like for me, I do enjoy running.

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I've ran races before, and so if went to a running club and met someone and then I found out that he didn't actually like to run, he only joined running club to meet women, I'd be like, wait what?

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So I do feel like you have to have a little bit of an interest in the groups that you're joining.

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But I have heard that.

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I actually have heard that, and then some women go to Home Depot like walking up and down the aisles like looking lost or to meet, you know, manly men, I have not gotten lucky at Home Depot.

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I live at Home Depot.

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I love Home Depot.

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I love Home Depot too.

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And I have actually had men approach me in Home Depot but it's never the man I want, I don't know.

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It's always like the Jethro and his you know jean overalls like looking all grungy Like I don't know.

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Unfortunately, I haven't had great luck at Home Depot.

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So golf people are starting women, a lot more women are starting to play golf now to expose themselves to these male golfers.

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I can see that one.

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I have a friend who's a bartender at a country club and she's she's seen some stuff so funny and another way to meet people is to go on family feud.

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So I was on family feud like two years ago and I know every time they rerun one of our episodes because I get so many messages from inmates like it comes to the system.

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It's like so and so, from this facility wants to chat with you.

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Do you accept?

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and it's all inmates, that's so funny, alicia, don't go on family that's one of my deal breakers, yep so like I'm, I've always been so intrigued by the criminal mind, like I love watching all those crime shows.

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So at first I'm like, oh my god, maybe I should accept.

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And my husband's like absolutely not.

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So we started looking up the things they're in for and it's like homicide and sexual crimes.

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I'm like yeah, I probably shouldn't respond.

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But this last time they reran an episode, I got an email from a very well spoken guy who's like you know.

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I saw your episode.

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I noticed your sister was single and she'd rather this not be the case.

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I was very impressed with her.

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She's smart and beautiful.

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Blah blah blah.

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I couldn't find her contact information anywhere, but I found you, so I kind of connected them.

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He's the VP of some financial firm, very good looking, very educated, and they're now conversing and speaking about going on a first date.

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He's in Georgia, though, but she loves the south.

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Yeah, okay, can you imagine if I get married?

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Steve Harvey marries her.

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Yes, you would have to, you would have to ask.

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Steve.

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Harvey to be the officiant and he was like giving her advice, like when you're on Family Feud, like you're there for you know two hours and Steve Harvey really takes the time to chat with you and ask you questions and get to know you.

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They just don't air that.

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So he was talking to my sister for probably 45 minutes giving her advice.

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You know what her advice.

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You know what's your typical type.

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She talked about the tattoos and how she always dates cops and you know firefighters, and he's like well, maybe you should try to venture outside of your typical type, maybe date someone that isn't that you know.

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So, anyways, my point is he really tries to help you out so you're giving me an idea that'd be a nice game show like, similar to family feud, feud for single women yeah, oh right, oh, my god that is a jackpot idea for single women.

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Yeah, oh right.

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Oh my God, that is a jackpot idea for single women.

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Yeah, yeah, and like the dating game.

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Yes, I love the dating game.

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I wish I would bring that back.

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Do a remake of the dating game.

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Wasn't that fun.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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We should trial an episode here on the pod, like bring in a panel we should.

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Yeah, yeah, that's a great idea.

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Yeah, yeah, to think about we should.

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Yeah, let's brainstorm it after we're done.

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So some other things.

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I wanted to talk about least attractive male hobbies.

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I saw this on the news.

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Okay, the least attractive male hobbies?

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Playing video games, do you think?

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No, that's a deal breaker that is a deal breaker really no, no, I think it depends on how much time you're spending on the game.

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Because it can be a mind-numbing release and I can understand that if it's like you get home after a long day and you just need to like sit and do something.

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That's just turn the brain off and sit and play your video games.

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But yeah, if it's a all the time and when they start choosing the video game over you yeah, over days then it's an issue.

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Yeah and sometimes too, like I dated a guy for a while who on Sundays he liked to play video games, like if there wasn't football on or something on, he would like on Sundays to sit and play video games.

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And Sunday is my like cooking day.

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That's my meal prep day that's the day that I like to, you know, do all that and we lived together and so it was actually kind of nice because we could be at home together and I could be in the kitchen doing my thing and he was in the living room on his video game and it and it was fine and it worked out.

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And so I think, as long as it's not an obsession, where it's like an all-day everyday thing and he's not being otherwise productive or otherwise like have other hobbies, I think it depends on the level I love the game when I have time, which isn't often I love like old old school one.

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Yes, yes, the new one's just not the same.

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Yes, yeah, another one is collecting figurines.

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How do you feel about that If a guy has a whole room with all this little figurines?

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Have you ever met a man that collects figurines?

00:27:39.722 --> 00:27:47.184
I know someone that's my friend's husband collects figurines and he's so into it Really Like what kind?

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Like the Funko Pop ones, yeah, or like the GI Joe's.

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Yeah, like the GI Joe ones.

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Really Interesting.

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Okay, all right, to each their own Magic tricks.

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Oh, can you imagine if a guy's on some magic tricks?

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No, maybe if he could make certain things appear larger.

00:28:01.569 --> 00:28:09.683
Yeah, that might be a magician endearing that's interesting.

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I haven't heard that one before.

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I know Two more.

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Online trolling deal breaker.

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If someone online trolls, oh yeah, like post negative things online, I can't we were talking about this the other day with some of the comments on our social media stuff Like there must just be people out there that just spend all day sitting online.

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Yeah.

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Trolling and commenting on strangers posts like all the time such negative stuff about us.

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Yeah, some of them don't make sense so, which makes me think they just cut and paste the same comment on a bunch.

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Yeah, I wouldn't want.

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They have too much time on their hands.

00:28:43.393 --> 00:28:46.624
Well, that's more productive things to do.

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Let me get a job, make some money.

00:28:49.352 --> 00:28:52.182
You know, I don't know the last one speaking of making money.

00:28:52.182 --> 00:28:59.958
The last one is gambling, but if your guy's making a lot of money gambling and he's winning, it's a it there's a line.

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There's a line between it being a problem and it not being a problem.

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I have some friends that they love to go to the casino and sit at the slots and or sit at the tables whatever.

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I say the slots, as I'm thinking of one of my mom's friends, Such an old lady thing, but no, I know a couple.

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I know a couple of people that that's date night money.

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Let's go, let's go have some fun.

00:29:23.681 --> 00:29:24.604
Yeah, right, yeah.

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I think, unless it's an issue where you're having to sell your house because to pay off gambling debt, unless it's an issue you know, yeah, I don't mind.

00:29:35.023 --> 00:29:40.020
I don't mind a guy that plays a little black as long as they're responsible, as long as they're responsible with it.

00:29:40.061 --> 00:29:41.508
Yeah, yeah, getting in trouble.

00:29:41.667 --> 00:29:57.048
Yeah, yeah, going in debt, right, yeah I and I think, with all of these things, like until it's a problem, you know, like, or it comes in between you and your mom, yeah, like, if it's just a fun hobby, it's kind of like, what's the harm in it?

00:29:57.269 --> 00:29:57.851
You know what I mean.

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It's popular out here.

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Exactly, I mean there's casinos everywhere.

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Yeah.

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As long as it's not an excess you know, agreed.

00:30:04.119 --> 00:30:08.746
So, speaking of pickup lines, do you have any pickup lines that you use or that people use on you that you think are hilarious?

00:30:08.766 --> 00:30:10.367
Oh my goodness, I've heard the most ridiculous.

00:30:10.488 --> 00:30:20.580
I was just going to say that, which is the worst, my queen, can I get some fries with that Shake Shake booty which was a lyric from that rap song, you know?

00:30:20.601 --> 00:30:25.780
but yeah, like you know, I'm pretty, pretty sizable in the back, you know, and I'm like, oh, but you don't even post your booty.

00:30:25.780 --> 00:30:26.544
That's the thing.

00:30:26.544 --> 00:30:34.863
No, it's like you're not, it's not like your social media is out here, like you shaking it, Wow.

00:30:34.863 --> 00:30:45.924
So me and my husband were flying last time we were flying and we were sitting next to these two blokes and they were trying to hit on the flight attendant because they were like she paid us a compliment, she's interested in us, We've got to take our shot, We've got to jump on this.

00:30:45.924 --> 00:30:48.378
So they were kind of conversing how they're going to take their shot.

00:30:48.378 --> 00:30:52.865
You know what their line was she's serving them drinks and they're like what can we get you to drink?

00:30:52.865 --> 00:30:53.907
We want to buy you a drink.

00:30:57.618 --> 00:31:01.087
She's like I'm working Fail, that is a fail, that is a fail.

00:31:01.434 --> 00:31:05.363
That's funny Now it's time for the celebrity cut, where we marinate in the juices of the celebrity.

00:31:05.363 --> 00:31:10.747
So I need to get your opinion on this, to get your opinion on this and there is more update on Meghan Markle things that she's doing.

00:31:10.747 --> 00:31:13.130
We've got to talk about this because our listeners love it, right?

00:31:13.130 --> 00:31:14.510
How do you feel about Meghan Markle?

00:31:14.510 --> 00:31:22.558
Because every time I post something negative about her, I get called racist and other people deal with the same thing how do you feel about?

00:31:22.558 --> 00:31:23.882
Meghan Markle, you know.

00:31:24.282 --> 00:31:28.361
I really don't follow her, other than what I read.

00:31:28.361 --> 00:31:41.680
She's a beautiful woman you know, I don't know too much about her personally, you know, but you're entitled to your own opinion and comments, you know, and I never said I hated her.

00:31:41.799 --> 00:31:46.700
I just have conversations about certain things that she's doing that I disagree with, like.

00:31:46.700 --> 00:31:53.461
So it's funny to me how, you know, her show with Love Megan it's been renewed for a second season and all her defenders are like, see.

00:31:53.461 --> 00:31:57.949
It's funny to me how her show With Love Megan it's been renewed for a second season and all her defenders are like, see, it's a success.

00:31:57.949 --> 00:31:58.750
Everything she touches turns to gold.

00:31:58.750 --> 00:31:59.171
She's so successful.

00:31:59.171 --> 00:32:02.894
But it's funny that's fake news, fake media, because they filmed the second season before they even released the first season.

00:32:02.894 --> 00:32:07.662
It was in the contract that we're going to release two seasons, regardless if it's successful or not.

00:32:07.662 --> 00:32:12.546
So that I thought was funny and I think it's crazy to me.

00:32:12.546 --> 00:32:14.398
How did you see she released the shop?

00:32:14.398 --> 00:32:17.144
My account on Instagram, where she meets commission.

00:32:17.164 --> 00:32:21.561
Isn't that a little classless trashy?

00:32:21.561 --> 00:32:27.079
I don't know for when you're associated with the monarchy to monetize the monarchy, and that's a big no, no in England.

00:32:27.079 --> 00:32:32.898
Like you are not supposed to monetize the monarchy and it just frustrates me how she's trashed the monarchy.

00:32:32.898 --> 00:32:33.823
She left them.

00:32:33.823 --> 00:32:36.291
She talks about how badly they've treated her.

00:32:36.291 --> 00:32:41.736
She's spoken negatively about them so many times but yet she insists on being referred to as the Duchess of Sussex.

00:32:41.736 --> 00:32:46.397
When you see her introduce herself on multiple platforms, she's like hi, I'm Megan the Duchess of Sussex.

00:32:46.397 --> 00:32:50.390
She rides that and now she's making commission off of that title.

00:32:50.390 --> 00:32:51.614
She's monetizing the monarchy.

00:32:51.634 --> 00:33:10.077
I don't know how I feel about that, and not only that, but I think my little like ick about that is is when you're trying to be um, like appeal to the masses, like you're trying to be relatable sure but you're going okay.

00:33:10.137 --> 00:33:12.425
So the pants that I'm wearing are.

00:33:12.425 --> 00:33:18.215
They're from Zara, they're a hundred dollars, oh, but my top is a three thousand dollar Dolce and Gabbana top.

00:33:18.215 --> 00:33:21.703
It's like how, like I get it, I get.

00:33:21.703 --> 00:33:28.060
You're doing the high low thing to try to be relatable, but how many people are you really relating to?

00:33:28.060 --> 00:33:33.728
Because how many people out there really can afford to do both?

00:33:34.209 --> 00:33:38.084
well you know to say that Zara is a low brand.

00:33:38.084 --> 00:33:39.609
A lot of people can't afford Zara.

00:33:39.609 --> 00:33:42.818
I mean, I don't shop at Zara because I think it's kind of pricey.

00:33:42.818 --> 00:34:00.857
Yeah, you know, a lot of people nowadays are shopping at Shein or at Timu or Forever 21 Target so to say that Zara's low end to me is like very not relatable at all, because for a lot of people zara's high high end absolutely, yeah, it's popular out here yeah, it is, I like it.

00:34:00.877 --> 00:34:01.499
It's different.

00:34:01.499 --> 00:34:04.865
It's got that kind of european kind of trend unique.

00:34:04.945 --> 00:34:06.876
Absolutely, you can find cute stuff there.

00:34:06.876 --> 00:34:08.561
Yeah, for sure, for sure.00:34:08.561 --> 00:34:19.545


I just think, yeah, I don't, I don't mind her, I just think she's trying very hard to be relatable and it's just maybe not translating.00:34:19.826 --> 00:34:25.364


Yeah, well and it's just funny how I just it cracks me up how she wanted to leave the royal family for her privacy.00:34:25.364 --> 00:34:27.797


But she's come here and she did a Spotify show.00:34:27.797 --> 00:34:29.320


That wasn't successful, it was axeded.00:34:29.320 --> 00:34:30.824


She did a reality show.00:34:30.824 --> 00:34:34.059


She did another reality show, she came out with a second season.00:34:34.059 --> 00:34:35.298


Now she's doing another podcast.00:34:35.298 --> 00:34:36.121


Did you hear about that?00:34:36.302 --> 00:35:00.023


No, she's coming out with another podcast and it's like I feel like she just loves to see herself, loves to hear herself and it's like nothing she's done the public because she's not very relatable they haven't really embraced her, but she still keeps going and going and going.00:35:00.023 --> 00:35:01.427


You know, like I keep going and going and going.00:35:01.427 --> 00:35:03.494


Maybe you have more in common with Meghan Markle than you think.00:35:03.494 --> 00:35:08.516


How funny.00:35:08.516 --> 00:35:09.036


Anyways, time to move on.00:35:09.056 --> 00:35:09.980


Let's put this subject to rest, shall we?00:35:09.980 --> 00:35:11.324


What is your favorite place to go on a first date in town?00:35:11.324 --> 00:35:12.246


Favorite place in town to go on a first date?00:35:12.246 --> 00:35:14.815


I would like to kind of keep it casual, just to get to know the person.00:35:14.815 --> 00:35:21.396


Um, maybe do something, maybe like a coffee shop or a lounge, just sit and chat and really get to know them.00:35:21.396 --> 00:35:25.255


To make sure I'm interested, because that first date could be the last and you don't drink alcohol?00:35:25.255 --> 00:35:27.860


I don't right, but I have no problem with anybody that drinks.00:35:27.880 --> 00:35:34.893


That's just a personal preference, okay so you would date someone that drinks just not in excess, obviously I'm the perfect person.00:35:34.932 --> 00:35:36.255


I'd be the designated driver.00:35:37.960 --> 00:35:46.626


You know, yes, who needs an uber driver when you have it now it's time for the juiciest segment of the show, the meat grab.00:35:46.626 --> 00:35:49.038


Are you down for the grab, up for the challenge, willing to share?00:35:49.038 --> 00:35:50.119


Pick one if you dare.00:35:50.400 --> 00:36:01.864


Okay, okay, let's see here, no, there, it's a, it's a free for all.00:36:01.885 --> 00:36:11.224


Some are not, so okay, all right what is your favorite food to use while having sex?00:36:11.224 --> 00:36:13.969


How and where do you use it?00:36:13.969 --> 00:36:19.182


That is a spicy one, wow, favorite.00:36:19.182 --> 00:36:20.585


Well, you know what Can I say?00:36:20.585 --> 00:36:21.947


Chocolate, of course.00:36:21.947 --> 00:36:24.981


Yeah, I'd have to say chocolate, cause I love chocolate.00:36:24.981 --> 00:36:26.300


And how do I use it?00:36:26.300 --> 00:36:27.559


I like to lick it off.00:36:27.740 --> 00:36:32.987


Oh now she's coming out of her shell right at the very end.00:36:35.675 --> 00:36:37.563


Do you have any other questions?00:36:37.563 --> 00:36:38.324


I don't.00:36:38.706 --> 00:36:39.489


Well, that's a wrap.00:36:39.489 --> 00:36:42.117


Thank you so much for joining us this week at the meat market.00:36:42.458 --> 00:36:43.561


Thank you so much, alicia.00:36:43.561 --> 00:36:50.898


If you want to go on a date with Alicia, go to any of our social media platforms, at meat market podcast or our website, the meat market podcastcom.00:36:50.898 --> 00:36:53.764


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Oh my God, I just totally got catfished.00:37:07.467 --> 00:37:14.518


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture, so I found out, the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.00:37:14.518 --> 00:37:16.659


His wife just reached out to me.