Dear Future Husband: How Alicia Is Rewriting the Dating Playbook
In a world dominated by dating apps and endless swiping, Alicia is taking a completely different route to finding love. Armed with a master’s degree in Healthcare Innovation and a refreshing sense of confidence, Alicia is using her social media platforms to manifest her future husband. Her "Dear Future Husband" series has gone viral, amassing over 45,000 views in just two weeks and attracting a flood of DMs from potential suitors.
Frustrated with the recycled men and lack of meaningful connections in the world of dating apps, Alicia decided to try something bold—addressing her future husband directly through posts that share snippets of her everyday life. From cooking meals to spending time with family, Alicia presents herself authentically, highlighting the values that matter most to her. “That’s me, that’s who I am,” she says, noting that while some might think she’s just performing for the internet, she genuinely enjoys the simple pleasures of life like cooking, cleaning, and family time.
And the response has been huge. Alicia’s Instagram is overflowing with over 300 DMs, not just from interested men, but also from women applauding her innovative approach to dating. Despite the high volume of responses, Alicia is committed to finding quality over quantity. “I’m not trying to be picky, but I know what I deserve,” she explains, adding that her minimum requirement is a stable job. Her ideal partner? Someone who’s well-put-together, structured yet spontaneous, adventurous, family-oriented, and radiates positive energy—traits that remind her of her parents' nearly 50-year marriage.
Alicia’s story takes a deeper turn with her commitment to celibacy until she finds the right partner. After past heartbreak, including financially supporting a partner who couldn’t hold a job, she’s decided to wait for someone who truly values her. Her choice reflects a strong sense of self-worth and a refusal to settle for anything less than what she knows she deserves.
Her dating strategy extends beyond social media. Alicia is open to long-distance relationships and would even consider relocating for the right person, dramatically widening her dating pool. She’s also active in engaging with doctors on Instagram, hoping to connect with professionals who share her values, though she’s still waiting for someone to take the first step and message her.
In a world where dating often feels transactional, Alicia’s approach is a breath of fresh air. She’s combining traditional values with modern tools to create a dating strategy that’s both authentic and meaningful. Alicia’s story reminds us that finding love doesn’t have to follow the conventional path—sometimes, the best way to meet someone is simply by being unapologetically yourself. Whether or not her future husband is reading her posts right now, Alicia's bold approach serves as an inspiration to singles tired of the standard dating scene, proving that authenticity might just be the most effective strategy of all.
